This is where it gets hard.
There is a reason why I haven't blogged. Or caught up with everything that has been happening this summer.
Taking care of 3 kids is hard.
They all have their own needs, they are all in very different stages in life.
Daphne eats, naps, crawls around and gets into everything. I can't take my eye off of her. She needs to be carried, rocked and cared for every second of the day.
Makiah needs entertainment. She needs to talk, play.... she needs interaction. She is still dependent on me, she needs help at meal time, doing her hair, matching her clothes, bathing, cleaning up, etc.
Evan is in school. He comes home tired. He doesn't know how to handle all these new things coming at him. He needs guidance and help so he doesn't fall to pieces (though he does, every single day).
So... even though 9-11 am and 2-4 pm is easy (Daphne naps and it's just me and Makiah), 4-8 pm is HARD. Those 4 hours of nap time are not spent catching up, they are spent staying sane. Preparing for the 4 hours of craziness that happen every single night.
After school, dinner time, and bed time need some work... or I will fall to pieces (Oh wait. I do. Every single night).
3 comments:
Jessica, you explain it so well :) of course 2 of mine are in school right now but I can so see what you are saying. Even with falling to pieces, it sounds like you are doing a great job.
i have no words of wisdom but just know that you are not alone.
I feel your pain, and I have one fewer kid. You're doing awesome to do as much as you do with everything on your plate!
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